One Thing Your Cardiologist Will Probably Never Tell You

Filed Under: Heart Health

If you go to your doctor complaining about cardiovascular problems, difficulty maintaining good cholesterol levels, bad circulation, or fears of heart attack and stroke, he/she will likely talk to you about proper medication.  But I go a step further.

I also encourage you to “feel.”  You see, if you allow yourself to feel—both negative and positive emotions—you will have a much greater chance of activating your body’s innate healing mechanisms.

Feelings connect you to your heart and, as I tell my patients, the separation of  the heart from feeling is often at the root of heart disease. I know this isn’t easy to grasp, so here are some steps you can take to start the process:

  • Reach out and connect with someone close to you. Call up an old friend you haven’t spoken to in a while. Get in touch with family members. Take your dog for a long walk. If you don’t have a pet, consider getting one—living with an animal is a great way to open your heart to love.
  • Ask someone close to you what they like. By caring about someone else, you break outside your own self-absorption.
  • Forgive and forget. Think of someone you’re angry with, and forgive them.
  • Say “I’m sorry” a little more often to other people and really mean it.
  • Take 30 minutes a day for you. Give yourself permission to cry, laugh, play—whatever action you’ve been holding back.
  • Network. Think of participating in some activity in which you’ll have the opportunity to form friendships with others.
  • Try to become a little more compassionate toward yourself and others. Start by accepting yourself—faults and all.
  • Reclaim your spiritual side. It will help you appreciate life’s ups and downs.

Now that you have a blueprint for a “change of heart,” don’t turn these guidelines into a stressor! If you only practice one per day, or one per week, that’s fine—this is a long-term program, not an overnight fix.

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DISCLAIMER: The content of is offered on an informational basis only, and is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the guidance of a qualified health provider before making any adjustment to a medication or treatment you are currently using, and/or starting any new medication or treatment. All recommendations are "generally informational" and not specifically applicable to any individual's medical problems, concerns and/or needs.

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