We simply don’t understand the tremendous role that our emotions play in health. And none is more dangerous than anger.
Anger—especially the kind that we bottle up and try to ignore—places a great burden on your cardiovascular system by increasing your blood pressure and heart rate. But it doesn’t have to be that way. You can avoid inflicting this kind of prolonged stress on your heart by dealing with your anger and realizing what it is doing to your health.
Of course, that’s often easier said than done. Most of us are out of touch with our anger and deny it, which may ultimately lead to high blood pressure.
One-on-one psychotherapy can be helpful, but if you can’t or don’t want to do that, try this four-step technique to deal with your anger before it deals your heart health a major blow:
Acknowledge your anger. You can’t solve a problem if you won’t admit to having it. Acknowledge you have anger in you, so you can move on to owning it and dealing with your anger.
Recognize your insight. After acknowledging your anger, you then need to realize that just having this insight is curative, because you are owning up to the anger you are experiencing and not repressing it.
Ask some questions. Now answer for yourself, “Is this worth my emotional investment?” If it is, then ask, “Is it worth raising my blood pressure or having a heart attack over this? Is it worth dying for?” Or: “If I get upset and angry, is it going to make a difference?” I can tell you that simply asking these questions will make a difference because you’ll be breaking your pattern of reacting to anger unconsciously.
Move forward. Finally, take some deep breaths, listen to your body, make a decision (to be angry or not), and go with the flow. Commit to either feeling and dealing with your anger, or let it go: Don’t hold onto it or repress it.
Remember, anger is normal, and a flash of angry feelings is healthy. It is dangerous only when you aren’t dealing with the anger. If you are in touch with your anger, you won’t need to be chronically angry, and you can let go of your hostile, angry feelings. Suppressing angry feelings, on the other hand, can wreak havoc on your blood pressure, your heart—and your life.
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